Love.

topic posted Thu, June 2, 2005 - 8:46 PM by  Lisa
Okay so I hear sag moons have a tendancy to fall in love easily. I'm writing to ask my fellow sag mooners if this rings true for any/all of you?

I'll be the first to say yes I do fall in love easily, but carefully aswell and not all the time with multiple people.
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Lisa
Australia
  • Re: Love.

    Thu, June 2, 2005 - 8:48 PM
    No, I don't fall in love easily. But I fall into infatuation easily.

    I think I've been really in love only three times in my life, but I've been head over heels for many ladies.
    • Re: Love.

      Fri, June 3, 2005 - 11:00 AM
      Perhaps I should qualify my answer.

      I have Venus conjunct Pluto in a fixed sign.

      My Moon in Sag....very active, yes, I fall quickly...
      But my Venus doesn't see it as love quite so easily
  • Re: Love.

    Fri, June 3, 2005 - 10:11 AM
    Yes, I would have to agree, I fall in love easily.
    • Re: Love.

      Fri, June 3, 2005 - 1:44 PM
      i've been thinking about this lately! i think i do fall in love easily (especiallly at burning man or on psychedelics!!) and having venus in scorpio sure doesn't help..
      • Re: Love.

        Mon, June 6, 2005 - 11:22 PM
        no, venus in scorpio doesn't help much, does it? I have the same affliction.
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          Tue, June 7, 2005 - 5:32 PM
          i'll swap you my venus in leo for your venus in scorpio any day of the week. in love i need attention like you wouldn't believe and it shits me to tears.
          • Re: Love.

            Tue, June 7, 2005 - 5:39 PM
            leelee, as one Venus in Leo to another...

            Maybe we could find a way to bottle it. Think of all those poor quiet unassuming Venus' that would love to be able to open up and shower people with affection!
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            Fri, June 17, 2005 - 12:25 AM
            If he doesn't go for that swap, leelee, I will. Venus in leo anytime over scorpio. Get the Scorp out of me, please :-)
            • Re: Love.

              Fri, June 17, 2005 - 1:40 PM
              I'm actually starting to not believe in "falling in love". I know that I feel love very easily, but to me, "falling in love" seems to take the form of possessing something or someone. I mean... why do we "fall in love"? Why not "rise in love"? Just ranting a little....
              • Re: Love.

                Fri, June 17, 2005 - 2:08 PM
                Very good point.

                Think of the symbolism.
                What is the most cataclysmic thing the Christian Church teaches ever happened to humans? The Fall.

                I would much rather think of a song...."love lifts us up where we belong..."
  • Re: Love.

    Mon, June 27, 2005 - 12:12 PM
    I have, & if I let myself, I can...

    a friend of mine (also a Sag moon) once said:

    "what's the dumbest thing for a Sag to say?... 'I love you'"

    good to be able to laugh at ourselves :J
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    Mon, October 23, 2006 - 9:32 AM
    moon in sagittarius with venus in scorpio...i love very easily and very deeply

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      Wed, October 25, 2006 - 6:58 PM
      my venus is in virgo..
      and i am rising scorpio.. i am quick to feel connected .. and pursue like you wouldnt believe.. but once i get close .. i get careful.
      and think it out throughly.. then .. i love them forever as a friend..
  • Re: Love.

    Sat, January 6, 2007 - 3:59 PM
    I fall in "crush" easily. I have venus in aries. I've always tended to jump into things without looking too closely and then sometimes wonder what I'm doing there. That's not love. But I've been in love 3 times and all three times never ever wanted it to end. And sometimes something is not true love but it's sweet.

    I'm very much monogamous. I'm not sure that's true for most sag moons?.
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    Re: Love.

    Sat, January 6, 2007 - 4:39 PM
    I don't fall in lust or attraction easily, but it is lust or attraction that happens first. I think we all basically fall in lust first, and then as we move along and get to know the person, love may or may not develop. I personally have not been "in love" yet. I've had unhealthy love experiences.

    Here's a breakdown of healthy love vs toxic or dysfunctional love:

    1. Love - Development of self first priority.
    Toxic love - Obsession with relationship.
    2. Love - Room to grow, expand; desire for other to grow.
    Toxic love - Security, comfort in sameness; intensity of need seen as proof of love (may really be fear, insecurity, loneliness)

    3. Love - Separate interests; other friends; maintain other meaningful relationships.
    Toxic love - Total involvement; limited social life; neglect old friends, interests.

    4. Love - Encouragement of each other's expanding; secure in own worth.
    Toxic love - Preoccupation with other's behavior; fear of other changing.

    5. Love - Appropriate Trust (i.e. trusting partner to behave according to fundamental nature.)
    Toxic love - Jealousy; possessiveness; fear of competition; protects "supply."

    6. Love - Compromise, negotiation or taking turns at leading. Problem solving together.
    Toxic love - Power plays for control; blaming; passive or aggressive manipulation.

    7. Love - Embracing of each other's individuality.
    Toxic love - Trying to change other to own image.

    8. Love - Relationship deals with all aspects of reality.
    Toxic love - Relationship is based on delusion and avoidance of the unpleasant.

    9. Love - Self-care by both partners; emotional state not dependent on other's mood.
    Toxic love - Expectation that one partner will fix and rescue the other.

    10. Love - Loving detachment (healthy concern about partner, while letting go.)
    Toxic love - Fusion (being obsessed with each other's problems and feelings.)

    11. Love - Sex is free choice growing out of caring & friendship.
    Toxic love - Pressure around sex due to insecurity, fear & need for immediate gratification.

    12. Love - Ability to enjoy being alone.
    Toxic love - Unable to endure separation; clinging.

    13. Love - Cycle of comfort and contentment.
    Toxic love - Cycle of pain and despair.


    • Re: Love.

      Sat, January 6, 2007 - 5:12 PM
      Dianne, that all sure looks true for sag moon. I have to say I agree with you on all fronts except that personally I'm generally a very jealous person in a relationship if I don't think it's monogamous. And... I do tend to be obsessive sometimes.

      To some other people what someone with a sag moon wants and likes is very unsettling though. It can be scarey for them.


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    Re: Love.

    Wed, March 21, 2007 - 6:48 PM
    I will admit I do have a rich fantasy life ;-)
    I have experienced almost fated relationships, from the instant we met, one of those cosmic explosions that don't last long. As that is the exception, I'm hardly ever the first to admit love in a relationship, cautious and careful at first.

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